Advice Is Free but Not Everyone Need It

Think about it. How many of people who are truly listen to your advice. First of all, did they ask for it?

So let’s stop being too nice and give abundance of advice to someone who don’t really care about it.

I’m not being sarcastic here. But, I’m trying to stop you from getting humiliated and save you from wasting your time for something that not so important.

I hate listening to advice; moreover if the person is pushing me to act in preference her/his advice.

Don’t take me wrong. I knew you are care for me and wanna see me in good place. I do listen to your say. But stop pushing me to take your advice. I knew if I wanted; if I accepted; I’ll likely to take your advice.

All I’m doing is sharing my story to you; even that only happened; if I wanted to do so or it’s naturally find its way. I don’t care even if you listen but I’m merely sharing. That’s it.

The more you are pushing to take your advice; the more I’ll ignore. Trust me, I’ll do.

So let’s be fair to each other. If I nodded and noted your advice; please stop there. Please do not ever put a pressure on me to act because you care for me way too much.

Let’s not cross the boundaries unless I allow you to do so.

My message is simple. I’m ok to listen to your advice but I’m not ok to take your pressure.

You probably would be thinking I’m rude. Let me tell you this. Only those who have the maturity, way beyond a common person would be able to take a straightforward clear cut message.

Think about it. I wish you to be a wiser adviser.

tatta, (bubbye)

#tamaka

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#BattleField & Win it with Smile & Silence

Every day is a battlefield.

Accept all the criticisms and make a point to learn from it. Then, let go of it as it never happened. That way, no string of emotions is created.

Some will inspire you and some will give you hard time. Let’s not hope everyone to be nice to you no matter how close you are with them.

No expectation; no pain.

Make peace with your heart and mind and strive to be better than tomorrow.

I don’t anticipate anything from anyone. I don’t expect anyone to be on my side. I fight this battle alone and the battle is between me and my mind. No one else involved.

It’s good to have someone to support but its ok to battle alone.

I don’t blame anyone for anything. In fact, I blame myself before pointing fingers.

People will treat you like a queen/king and trash you like rubbish. That’s people and that’s totally fine to me.

So, don’t ever expect to be treated like a queen but expect nothing.

This is my battle. I must fight alone and I’m ready for it. I chose to fight the battle with big smile in face and silence in heart.

Dear God, I have a request for you.

Please do not ever change the real me “who I am” to win this battle.

tatta, (bubbye)

#tamaka

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Big Boss Tamil & My Thoughts

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The #Big BossTamil grand #finale just ended on 30/9/2017. By now, everyone would have had known the title winner of the game. You like it or not, accept the fact that the winner is selected by the majority of vote.

Five fascinating facts about #BigBossTamil.

  1. According to Broadcast Audience Research Council (BARC) India Bigg Boss Tamil garnered 3.4 million impressions on its first day of launch
  2. The cash price offered is Rs 50 lakh (MYR 323,538.464 as of posted date)
  3. Total votes registered by poll for the show is 77 crores (770 million / 0.77 billion)
  4. #OviyaHelen becomes the people winner worldwide without competition.
  5. Twitter followers of #OviyaHelen skyrocketed from 82.38K on 30/6/2017 to 309.23 as of 2/10/2017

Basically, it’s a game where the winner will be determined by their personal character. I would say there is an element of character assassination. However, the reality is everyone is right on their point of view.

A robber is right on his own view. It’s as simple as that. Everyone are deserves their own opinion and thought.

 Nothing is right or wrong. The reality is it’s depends on your own angle of thought.

Analysis, Accept & Move on.

What’s your thought on the title winner Mr #Marutuva Muttham ? Share it in comment …

tatta, (bubbye)

#tamaka

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Happy Friendship Day

[Many of my writings are remains as draft as I couldn’t find time to proof-reading before posting. My apology for the delay but I guarantee you will enjoy the content and the logic of it 🙂 ]

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Drawing by @ (IG)

“Friend” who introduced the word to us? When do we learn the meaning of this word? How do we know “the one” is our friend? When do we start to address them as a friend? Do we know the real meaning of friendship? How long it stays with us? Do we still bother about the one we used to call as a “friend”?

How long a friend can stay as a friend? How long the friendship stays as friendship before it’s disappear and fade away leaving no traces.

I’m sure we have come across a lot of people in our life. Only 10% out of them become our friend. Yet, we only allowed few of them to be close to us.

Now my question is, how long does the friendship last longer?

Remember, friendship is like a tree. You need to take care and nurture it with water and fertilizer to keep it healthy and grow. If you have stopped nurturing, it will die even before you realise it.

NOW, ASK YOURSELF. How many of you are taking that concise care to nurture your friendship? Does it make it to your priority list? If it is not, I tell you what, there is no point of having this friendship because it will die anyway. One day, it will go far away and you can’t even trace memory of it.

SO, if you are gifted with few good friends, learn to appreciate them. Make time to nurture your friendship so that you can always sail in the FRIEND-ship while living your very own life.

Trust me; it’s only possible if it is in your priority list. I know where I am; I’m working hard to be in priority list. If I can’t make it, I know I have died trying.

#HappyFriendshipDay My Friends.

tatta, (bubbye)

#tamaka

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#SelenaGomez #Lupus #KidneyFailure #afriend #Inspiration

Have you guys heard it?

Selena Kidney

This is the most saddened, surprise yet inspiring news for this September month.

Selena found she has a sick called lupus back in 2014. Seriously, I got to know of this word only through her. “Lupus” it’s an autoimmune disease where your body immune system turns against your body parts and tissues which it’s supposed to protect. At worse, it can affect your bone density, heart, liver, pancreas, and brain.

That’s what happened to this famous super cool pop singer #SelenaGomez. So, she had to go through a kidney transplant. Another super cool fact is that one of her friend named “Francia Raisa” is generous to donate her kidney for her. I mean I have no words to say. Would I do that for my friend? I’m totally doubtful on myself. “Francia Raisa” you have my utmost respect.

Just before she had the surgery, she released her new album song Fetish. Watch it here My question now is; she had all the money in the world to take a break to get rest or even to quit her career to live her own life. Why the hell, she need to work (I mean so) hard to release an album before the surgery? Oh!!… COME ON!!…

Right after the surgery, she announced her new collaboration with “PUMA”. Do I have a word to describe how she had inspired me with her act? No, I don’t have.

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I mean have she had the surgery? It’s so invisible.

How old is she? What!!! Just 25? Where the hell, she got this much of inspiration from? Where she finds her motivation to put that work equal to her life?

If I were Selena, would I have done the same? I don’t think so.

She showed me how serious we should consider our work is.

She showed me how committed we should be to our work.

Nothing gets to higher other than your commitment to the work.

tatta, (bubbye)

#tamaka

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#Rohingya: The #Discriminated Minority in #Myanmar

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Photo Credit : Soe Zeya Tun/Reuters

I am skipping scrolling whenever I come across of their pictures in social media. How could it be so much of pain in one single picture? Why their eyes are conveying unendurable pain?

This is not the first time humans are discriminated by the name of religion, race, colour, country, nationality, gender and so on, you name it.

The earth, the land is belongs to no one. In fact, no one knows the CREATOR. Who are you to claim ownership of it?

How can it be a person become so unwanted out of nowhere?

THE OTHER SIDE OF ME …

Thank God it’s in Myanmar. Would I accept them; if they were to be in Malaysia? Have I accepted the foreigners who have occupied Malaysia right now?

Am I thinking all those beggars who were flooding the city street at night are not discriminated in Malaysia?

Am I thinking I’m not discriminated as a minority in my own country?

What should I answer? What Should I do now?? ………………..

tatta, (bubbye)

#tamaka

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[Arts & Craft Events] Chalk Drawings and Writings Solo Exhibition

Date: until 22 August 2017

Location:  Free Art Space, #Bukit Bintang

Check it out upcoming body of work titled ‘Hand-Written World’ solo exhibition by the famous Japanese chalk artist Chalkboy in Malaysia at Free Art Space, Bukit Bintang

Exhibition and demonstrations are totally FREE of charge.

Workshop Available:  RM248 p/person                  Duration: 90 minutes

Visit their website to register for the workshop.

Chalkboy Instagram : chalkboy

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tatta, (bubbye)

#tamaka